Sexual Consent Classes Are Demeaning, Infantilising And Pointless

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Student union-supported “Sexual Consent Classes” are pointless, infantilising, highly offensive to men and a distraction from the core purpose of academia and university life

When you reach the age of eighteen, you become an adult. You can drink, smoke, serve on a jury or fight for your country in the Armed Forces. You are no longer a child.

It should not be necessary to state something so mind-numbingly obvious in modern Britain, but that is exactly where we now find ourselves, somehow forgetting that at a certain point – the age of eighteen, in this case – it comes time for people to put away childish things and take their first solo steps in the world, unsupported by parents, schools or institutions.

This regression is not happening by chance. There are certain groups of people – student union activists and the virtue signalling Left in general – who are determined to roll back the whole idea of adulthood, to infantilise almost the entire population and create a nation of wobbly-lipped current or future victims who must be coddled and protected at all times by the self-appointed Defenders of the Vulnerable.

We see it with the increasing demands for professors to slap “Trigger Warnings” on texts that some may find offensive or distressing. We see it in the deadly serious attempts to ban clapping in favour of jazz hands at student meetings. And we see it with the insidious growth of so-called “safe spaces” or free speech black spots, spreading over campuses like a cancer. It is no longer a strange new phenomenon.

But one of the most troubling manifestations of this regression to childhood is the new fad for universities (in collaboration with – or at the gunpoint of – student unions) to run mandatory “sexual consent classes” for students, organised on the assumption that young men are wild and dangerous creatures who need to be tamed and taught how to behave properly in polite society before being unleashed on campuses.

Even when these cheerfully-promoted sexual consent classes are not technically mandatory, they effectively become so because male students who dissent – asserting that they are human beings with no moral or cognitive impairment, thus rendering sitting through a class on how not to rape someone both unnecessary and insulting – are subject to vilification, persecution and harassment, the enthusiasm of which would do ISIS proud.

Fortunately, some liberty (and common sense) minded students are now waging a fightback, point-blank refusing both to take part in these ludicrous exercises in male re-education or to apologise for their refusal. Spiked Magazine today profiles the case of a student from Warwick University, my alma mater, who did just that.

Lauren Southern reports the case of George Lawlor:

A new phenomenon has started on university campuses, one that should have emerged years ago. Men are publicly pushing back against demeaning contemporary labels. These labels paint men as intrinsically sexually driven beings who not only misunderstand consent, but actually disregard it. On 14 October, George Lawlor, a student at the University of Warwick, wrote a piece for the Warwick Tab about why he refused to attend ‘I *Heart* Consent’ training sessions – lessons that have been pushed on university campuses by the National Union of Students (NUS) in order to teach young men and women how to obtain consent before sex.

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In his article, Lawlor states: ‘I feel as if I’m taking the “wrong” side here, but someone has to say it – I don’t have to be taught not to be a rapist. That much comes naturally to me, as I am sure it does to the overwhelming majority of people you and I know. Brand me a bigot, a misogynist, a rape apologist, I don’t care. I stand by that.’

Most zealots, unable to counter Lawlor’s points with any valid counterarguments of their own, choose to descend to personal insults and foul-mouthed invective instead.

For example, the blog Another Angry Woman wrote a hit piece (complete with prissy, virtue-signalling trigger warning that her article discusses “rape culture”) accusing Lawlor of looking exactly like a rapist:

In doing all of this, George Lawlor has achieved one thing, and one thing only: he’s made himself look like a rapist. His short article and selfie have worked wonders in demonstrating a lot of the little hints I look out for, after years of the unfortunate experience of having encountered rapists. Men who display these behaviours, I now avoid.

All this sound and fury distracts from the fact that the Consent Class-advocating, Student Union zealots have no right to judge half of the population and find them guilty of pre-crime. Universities exist to generate and impart knowledge. That is their function. Students go to university to receive said knowledge and earn their degree. Okay, and maybe to drink beer and socialise, too. But the main purpose is education.

It is not the job of the university to act as some kind of officious, overbearing surrogate parent to students who – we always seem to forget when discussing these depressing Stepford Student issues – are actually adults themselves, fully grown people who should be more than capable of navigating their way in the world without being wrapped in cotton wool.

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Imagine for a moment that the same situation was transplanted onto another group of people. Suppose that university authorities, concerned about Islamic extremism and the potential radicalisation of students, started to conduct mandatory British Values classes for their Muslim student populations. After all, most Muslims are not terrorists, but there is an “epidemic” of terrorism being waged by Islamic extremists. Therefore, wouldn’t it be the conscientious and “safe” thing to make this very small imposition on all Muslim students in Britain, just to spread the message that suicide bombing is Not Cool?

If British universities implemented such a policy, student unions up and down Britain would go ballistic, accusing the authorities of racism and a wanton abuse of power. And they would be right to do so – mandatory anti-radicalisation or British Values classes targeted at one segment of the student population would be an intolerable affront to civic rights, not to mention the right of Muslim students as paying university customers not to be singled out for public opprobrium.

And yet when precisely the same logic is ported across to the issue of rape and sexual assault, all male students are deemed potentially dangerous, totally lacking in morals and governed by base animal instincts which must be tamed and controlled by the wise and progressive minds of left wing campus do-gooders.

Is consent more complicated than the one-time utterance of “yes” or “no”? Absolutely. But most people with a functioning brain should be able to realise that much anyway. The remainder who go on to rape or sexually harass will not suddenly cease their behaviour when the memory of an NUS-organised consent class randomly pops back into their mind. Thus consent classes do little more than browbeat a bunch of students who would never consider inappropriate sexual conduct in the first places, while those who most need to take the lesson onboard sit there rolling their eyes or skip the class altogether.

And even if this were not so, it is not the place of universities to impart such basic tips for living in society as “don’t rape the person next to you” to their newly-arrived students. If young adults are turning up at university so worryingly undercooked that they require trigger warnings and safe spaces, or a refresher that “rape is bad, mmmkay?”, then they need to hold off on joining the real world for awhile longer and go back  home while their parents finish the job of turning a baby into a walking, talking adult.

And it is home, of course, where life lessons about sexual consent should be taught in the first place. Not by universities who are bullied and cajoled into playing the part of surrogate parent, and not by preening, morally superior student union activist types who wear their progressive policies like they are this season’s coolest fashion.

Yesterday it was safe spaces and trigger warnings, today it is consent classes and tomorrow it will be something else. Freedom, autonomy and power are lost in increments, not all at once, and though the behaviour of these self-appointed student moral guardians is almost beyond parody it remains vital that we take seriously their attempts to infantilise our culture and turn us all either into perpetually vulnerable wards of the state or potential criminals who must be re-educated as punishment for our pre-crime.

And in doing so, we must maintain strong solidarity with those fighting in the trenches on university campuses up and down the country. As Lauren Southern notes:

Lawlor and Hadfield [another dissenter] took a risk by speaking out against consent classes. They could have sat through a few hours of pretentious Newspeak from a posh, self-appointed, moral superior. They could have nodded when they were told men are inherently sexist, that we live in a rape culture and that a quarter of women are assaulted on campus. Instead, they chose to speak up and urge students to put their efforts into legitimate causes, instead of continually wasting their time on feelgood, hug-box sessions.

Well done to George Lawlor for daring to do something that perhaps few of us would have done when we were newly arrived at university, eager to make friends and jealously guarding our embryonic reputations. It takes real courage to stand up to the snarling, vindictive left wing student mafia and tell them to their faces that they are wrong.

For asserting his right not to be treated as a rapist-in-waiting, George Lawlor is a genuine profile in courage.

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9 thoughts on “Sexual Consent Classes Are Demeaning, Infantilising And Pointless

  1. Arthur Taylor October 21, 2015 / 10:45 PM

    Hi Sam!

    Long-time reader, first-time commenter 🙂

    I’m not going to comment on these courses’ content, the specifics of which I know nothing about (not that that seems to stop anyone else), but I object to your reducing the very complex topic of consent to a dichotomy between “people with a functioning brain” and those who “go on to rape or sexually harass”. [“Is consent more complicated than the one-time utterance of “yes” or “no”? Absolutely.” also seems a bit glib]

    Wanting to promote awareness around consent does not require that one assumes “that young men are wild and dangerous creatures who need to be tamed and taught how to behave properly in polite society”. The vast majority of human sexual experience falls somewhere in the messy grey area between mutual, enthusiastic consent and violent sexual assault, and society does a pretty poor job of setting and meeting expectations in that zone. Which, incidentally, is a topic that is addressable equally to women as it is men, and should be as much of interest to people in long-term, non-abusive, exclusive sexual relationships as to sexually adventurous college undergraduates.

    I do take the point that such courses may not affect any change in behaviour – some people just aren’t interested in improving the way they relate to the rest of humanity (and of course, the more privileged you are the less not understanding or being understood by others hurts your prospects and/or risks your well-being). But where would you rather have society learn the nuances of respectfully and safely navigating romantic and sexual relationships, than in our educational institutions? Or would you prefer that we never teach people anything beyond the biological basics? Cut-away diagrams and photos of STDs is not a rounded sexual education.

    Arthur

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