Remainers were not able to win the EU referendum, but they are determined to make wavering Brexit voters regret and feel ashamed about their vote
I’m now starting to get quite angry at the effect the bullying, hectoring and self-entitled sore loser contingent within the Remain camp are having on soft Leavers.
Many people were genuinely conflicted in their decision, and have already displayed an enormous amount of personal courage in overcoming the incessant Project Fear messages crafted by Will Straw, David Cameron and their Britain Stronger in Europe henchmen. To see them now cowed and bullied into feeling bad about their decision by furious Remainiacs intent on associating them with racists and xenophobes is offensive in the extreme.
Newsweek magazine details some of the abuse received by just one left-wing Brexit supporter:
Here is one of the hateful comments that was posted on my Facebook profile by a male friend in Berlin: “It’s plain & simple: You voted with the fascists and now you use their lingo (that the mainstream media covered it wrong) to justify your naivety. If I hadn’t heard that sentiment a gazillion times from morons in Germany or the UK, it would be pretty funny, but now it just makes me sick and I have to say it somehow fits ya…[sic]” Not content with that, he then followed up with an even more insulting private message to me, at which point he was defriended.
This next one came from a senior male ex-colleague: “You voted leave??? A racist hate campaign based on lies which were admitted not even 24 hours after the vote? I am shocked. But at least Trump sent his congrats. Unbelievable.”
Another male friend, this time from London, wrote: “When you’ve got commenters on the Daily Mail site saying they feel misled and would change their vote if they could, then you know you’ve got problems.” I told him I didn’t feel misled. He didn’t like that very much. Cue more vitriolic and deeply patronizing comments where I was told to “look up this” and “look up that” as if my IQ had dropped.
Newsflash! I didn’t go to bed left-wing and wake up right-wing. As all my real friends know, I believe in integration, tolerance, multiculturalism, the NHS and equal rights. So just to say it once more for those at the back not really listening—that’s definitely not fascist. Perhaps some of my so-called friends would like to talk to people up and down the country, not just in London, and learn how disenfranchised and disappointed many in the U.K. are with the EU, the Conservatives and austerity politics in general.
Latest to succumb to the browbeating is divorce lawyer Ayesha Vardag, who pitifully recants her Leave vote in the Telegraph:
I think there has been a lack of informed debate on both sides. I was not uninformed. But perhaps, in this instance, I was too informed, and I should have voted with my natural, liberal, European-spirited tribe rather than according to my concerns about the federal project, which now feel to me esoteric and unimportant.
With all this, I sound as if I’m making excuses. But I am only trying to explain, I suppose, why I voted as I did and why, too late, I have changed my mind.
I hate much more than anything about the EU the divisions in our country, the racism and xenophobia that have been given voice and legitimacy, the indignity of the shameful lack of leadership in our country, the destruction of our national esteem in our own and others’ eyes, the horrible, horrible mess that engulfs us now.
I feel, bizarrely, personally responsible for everything that goes wrong now, because, with my vote, with my expressed opinions, I contributed to it, and I shall be sorry every day. And those who know me well know I don’t much like to say sorry.
I’m sorry I voted out, given how it has transpired. I am so sorry so many people I care about are upset about the referendum result. I feel guilty that I voted for something that has made them so afraid and unhappy. I also feel massively panicky about the market instability, the social division and the failure of sensible direction at the top.
Guilt trick – successfully accomplished.
This blog is no great fan of Ayesha Vardag, but one should still deplore the fact that a fellow citizen and voter can have such opprobrium heaped upon them – including accusations that they are effectively in collusion with racists and reactionaries – simply for voting based on their perfectly valid and mainstream criticisms of the European Union.
And it is not just angry trolls on social media whipping up this anti-Brexiteer hatred. It is politicians and commentators and supposedly respectable people who have decided to characterise the EU referendum as a battle of good versus evil in which any dissenters from the pro-EU status quo automatically fall into the evil category.
This can only backfire. Loudly and shrilly accusing half of the country of being racist simpletons didn’t work when the establishment was fighting to keep Britain in the EU; it will certainly not work as disappointed Remainers seek to find their footing and regain their influence over political events. Indeed, we already see the opposite happening, with even some Remain voters recoiling from the arrogance and intolerance of their own side.
The Spectator carries the story of one Remain voter who now openly wishes that he had voted Leave:
As the week progressed, and demonstrators with radical piercings marched on Parliament in solidarity with EasyJet and George Osborne, I found my mood change. As one Guardian commentator after another dismissed the opinion of the poor, the old, the white, the uneducated, I began to wonder if the Leavers hadn’t been right all along. Perhaps the Remain side were out of touch with what much of Britain thought.
[..] As my mood changed, yet more taboo thoughts rose to the surface. If the EU has transformed working conditions for the better, why are there so many zero-hours ‘contracts’? Why do ‘left wingers’ trust businesses so reliant on cheap labour? If it’s so important for crime prevention, how do we explain Saliman Barci and Arnis Zalkalns? We are ‘informed’ that we need young blood because there’s a pensions crisis, but won’t migrants also grow old? We are told by Jeremy Corbyn that immigration has no impact on housing, and it’s all because the Tories are too mean to build 300,000 houses a year. What if he’s wrong and the EU did in fact have a negative impact on housing stock?
Then came the petitions. Remainers calling for the referendum to be ignored, or worse, re-run, revealed themselves to be the enemies of democracy. How many of them would tolerate similar calls from the Leave camp if the vote was reversed? And what happens if a re-run took place and a slender majority did vote Remain. Did they really think the Leavers would take that lying down?
By now, I also wanted to repent. I’d voted Remain, but had not realised that my vote would have counted for more if I had voted Leave. I regretted my vote because if the margin had been wider, perhaps those commentators who make a living decrying our country, our electorate, our past, would pause to reflect on what voting meant to ordinary people rarely allowed to make national decisions. For an overwhelming majority of Leave voters it wasn’t about sending messages to Brussels, or wiping the smugness off Cameron’s face; it was about deciding which choice would be best for them, their children, and for the country they love.
In case it was not already apparent (with the ascendancy of Jeremy Corbyn, the SNP and Donald Trump) these are not normal political times in the West. The establishment was already discredited and seriously off balance even before the stunning EU referendum result further highlighted their disconnect from much of the population. And now, many people within and around the establishment seem determined to compound this disconnect by either explaining away the people’s decision to vote for Brexit or angrily chiding them for it.
But for every tearful recanting of a Leave vote under duress on social media we are likely to see two or more hearts hardened against pleas from establishment figures for the people to defer to their arrogant self-interest masquerading as dispassionate expertise. People just aren’t buying it any more.
Ayesha Vardag, for her faults, has absolutely nothing to apologise for when it comes to her vote in favour of democratic self government and against a failing, dysfunctional and terminally un-reformable European Union. And though wall-to-wall catastrophisation of Brexit in the media and screeching denunciations of Brexiteers on social media have caused her to recant her vote, she will be vindicated in her initial decision in the fullness of time.
And this sneering, arrogant and deeply ignorant anti-Brexiteer inquisition being waged by disappointed Remain supporters will not succeed.
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I’ve been thinking about this subject recently. I quite agree with certain comments here. I quickly learned that my friends views were aggressive views to remain. I keep my mouth shut about voting to leave, because I would be ripped to pieces. I told them I didn’t vote, which I just about got away with in conversation. I am not the things they would be accusing me of, and the views they would label me with if I told them I voted leave. It appears that many people have forgotten what democracy means.
From time to time I Google to see whether other people who voted to leave the EU felt as bullied and patronised as I did, and I stumbled upon this article.
The nastiness I experienced after the vote as a result of social media and television allusions to my vote being racist, xenophobic, bigoted, stupid and ignorant, left me in a very depressed state for a while. It was so lacking in intelligence – there were even people claiming to respect the democratic Leave choice but asking us to ‘prove’ we weren’t racist.
I’m fine with people having voted to remain – I nearly did myself, it was a close run thing for me, but in the end I weighed it up and fell down on the Leave side. Maybe I was wrong, maybe I was right, maybe there is no wrong or right, and maybe I am just a person asked to make a choice. But the ranting after the result made me feel as if I’d gone out and committed a crime – an actual crime. I’d ruined the travel prospects of the young, trashed the economy, and was part of a cult of hatred and division. For a while I actually wondered whether I was a bad person – whether I had become unacceptable to people I loved or even if the musicians I was listening to on my ipod would hate to think of me enjoying their music. I apologised to friends and family, and made sure we were all still alright. But now I am unrepentant, because I remembered that my vote was conscientious. In a democracy, why should I repent my well considered vote? I feel angry at the anti-democratic bullying. Campaign to re-join? Fine. Abuse people because they want to leave? No.
What I find annoying now is the constant conflation in the media of my vote with support for the likes of Donald Trump or climate denial. They paint a constant picture of two tribes, as if our EU referendum vote is all that defines us.
I was depressed because I was made to feel like a bad person, but now I am depressed by the lack of nuance and open-minded discussion in many discussions about this subject. I’ve had to totally abandon social media.
Thanks for your article, it was helpful to know others have felt the same, even though that is a shame.
Sorry, don’t know who Ayesha Ardag is. But those of us “stupid” enough to vote for real democracy will just have to stand our ground and keep the Remainiacs at bay. They would have had their own set of problems to deal with, like further unification and a European Army and any other lunatic idea that Brussels would have come up with. So two fingers to that sort of future. It was obvious that had we voted to remain, the bureaucrats of Brussels would have had us over a barrel. Whatever madnesses they devised to which any sane, normal person would have objected, they could then say, “Ah, ah, but didn’t you vote to Remain?” Thank goodness I had the brains and education and freedom to see what lay ahead. Folks, just keep positive and we will make a better country for ourselves. I, like most other Brexiteers, still love Europe, my European neighbours whether living in their own country or in the UK, it’s just the heartless, soul-less, mindlessness of the BBoB (bloody bureaucrats of Brussels. Typing this as I sing “The Marseilles” along with lots of other French fans at Euro 2016 in Lyons tonight. Don’t know all the words to “Deutschland Deutschland, Uber Alles” but I sure as hell know and love the music to the German National Anthem. Long may we all remain in harmony – as our own independent nations.
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Beautifully put. Thank you – I quite agree.
I tend not to read MSM so hadn’t realised it was so bad. Thanks for posting this.
Sounds like a Vietnamese re-education camp.